FAFO Parenting: Is This the Parenting Philosophy We All Needed
Gentle parenting had good intentions, but is it holding up in real life? Enter FAFO parenting: part natural consequence, part parental survival instinct. What happens when you stop explaining and start letting kids find out for themselves? This article explores the evolution of parenting from the ’80s to now, and what today’s parents are doing when gentle just isn’t enough.
Stay-at-Home Mom, Working Mom, or Work-from-Home? The Honest Pros & Cons
No mother’s path is easy all the time. Whether you’re clocking in at an office, working from your kitchen table, or running a household full-time, each version of motherhood comes with its own wins and hard days. This guide breaks down the honest pros and cons of stay-at-home, working, and work-from-home motherhood — for both you and your kids — without the guilt or judgment.
Why Grandparents Think You’re Doing Everything Wrong (And How to Set Boundaries Without Starting a War)
Are the people who are supposed to support you criticizing your every parenting decision? Whether it’s side-eyes over sleep schedules or passive-aggressive digs about raising “soft boys,” this breaks down why the grandparent dynamic can feel so charged and how to hold your ground without blowing up the family group chat.
Make More Money, Be Happier, Fix Your Partner? Popular Advice Misses the Problem
You’re broke, burnt out, and trying to keep your relationships from falling apart—and the advice you hear ignores the real barriers you’re up against. Why does so much popular advice fail moms? And how do we find what actually helps when we’re out of time, energy, and patience. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” and still drowning, this article is for you.
Too Hot, Too Crowded: Why I Stopped Forcing Holiday Fun On My Kid
If holidays leave you feeling more drained than joyful, you’re not alone. The pressure to create picture-perfect memories—complete with fireworks, matching outfits, and smiling kids—often backfires. Instead of connection, you’re left with cranky toddlers, traffic jams, and sky-high expectations. This year, it might be time to ditch the crowds and choose something simpler. Here’s why skipping the chaos might be the best gift you give your family—and yourself.
Why I’m Skipping My Toddler’s Birthday Party
Your toddler doesn’t care about the matching napkins. They care that you’re there. So why are so many of us burning ourselves out over a party they won’t even remember? This year, we skipped the stress, saved the money, and reclaimed the day — and no, I’m not feeling guilty about it. If you’re tired of performative parenting, this one’s for you.
Will Your Kid Marry an AI Someday? Gen Z Thinks It’s a Real Option
Eighty percent of Gen Z is open to marrying AI—and can you blame them? Humans flake. Humans lash out. Humans disappear mid-text and never call back.
If you want your kid to choose connection over code, don’t waste your breath banning AI girlfriends. Here’s how to teach them what real relationships feel like.
Motherhood, Money, and Doing It Alone
Are you raising kids without backup, money, or a moment to yourself?
Welcome to the club no one warned you about—but Mama Needs a Village is here to change that.
I unpack why motherhood feels harder than ever—and how brands are profiting off your exhaustion. From emotional burnout to budget-stretching hacks, I’ll show you how to stop buying into the lie that perfection is affordable, and start building a life that works—for real moms, on real incomes, with real struggles.
Partnership Isn’t 50/50—And That’s Not a Failure
You’re not failing because your marriage isn’t 50/50. You’re not broken because your husband doesn’t instinctively scrub the toilet or remember your kid’s shoe size. The modern fantasy of perfect equality in parenting is exhausting—and unrealistic for many of us raised in a different world. This piece is for the moms making it work, the women choosing independence, and anyone tired of being told it’s their fault if their partner won’t “step up.” Let’s talk about what real partnerships look like—flaws, uneven loads, and all.
Why Bluey’s Parents Might Be the Most Relatable on TV
Did you know Bluey’s parents are in their 40s—and thriving? In a world that pushes 20-somethings to procreate before they’re ready, Chilli and Bandit Heeler offer a refreshing, quietly radical take on parenting: mature, present, and totally relatable. Here’s why their age matters more than you think—and what we can learn from these animated Aussies.
Diversify Your Tribe: The Mother’s Day Gift You Didn’t Know You Needed
Before I became a mom, I thought my village would look just like me—same phase, same parenting style, same oat milk. Instead, I found something better: a tribe of wildly different women who keep me sane, seen, and whole. One helps me survive. One makes me aspire. One reminds me I’m still a woman. This Mother’s Day, maybe the gift you really need isn’t a break. It’s a broader circle.
Free Journaling Printable: How to Start a Daily Writing Habit
You ever wish you could go back and give your younger self a heads-up? Me too. Not just as a mom but also as a woman who spent too much time being the “cool girl,” picking the wrong guys, and shrinking herself to be chosen. If you’re burned out, stretched thin, or just tired of chasing someone else’s definition of a good life—grab this free printable and start writing your way back to you.
No One’s Coming: The Real Cost of Motherhood Without a Support System
We love to toss around “it takes a village,” but what happens when there is no village? No one to hold the baby while you shower, no friend to text when you’re unraveling in a parking lot. For millions of moms, this is the everyday reality—and it’s slowly breaking them.
This isn’t a personal failing. It’s a societal setup. If you’ve ever whispered “I can’t do this anymore” into the dark, this one’s for you.
Journaling for Moms Who’ve Lost Their Pink (and Their Spark)
What if the part of you that made you feel most you—before the diapers, the mental load, the marriage friction—has gone quiet? This isn’t just another “self-care” post. It’s a raw, real look at how moms lose themselves—and how journaling can help you remember who you were before motherhood rewrote everything. Spoiler: bubble baths won’t fix it. But your own words just might.
Why We Need to Give The Two Types of Boy Moms a Damn Break
Boy moms—you’re either already side-eyeing your future daughter-in-law or you’re carrying the crushing responsibility of fixing modern masculinity. And no matter what, you’re doing it wrong in someone’s eyes. But what if we stopped expecting moms to either be their son’s first love or a full-time social justice warrior? Let’s talk about why we need to give boy moms a damn break—and how #boymom culture is setting all of us up for failure.
The Secret to Not Losing Your Mind as a Parent (It’s Not Another Routine)
Every parenting tip out there swears that structure and routine are the keys to sanity—but what if that’s a lie? No amount of color-coded calendars will change the fact that toddlers are tiny chaos machines. If you’re exhausted from carrying the mental load of your household while society tells you it’s still not enough, it’s time for a reality check. Here are the real secrets to keeping your sanity as a parent—no extra planning required.