Parents are told to “put on their oxygen mask first,” but no one explains how much that oxygen costs. This isn’t about overpriced self-care trends—it’s about the real, escalating price of staying mentally functional in a system that waits until you snap. From therapy bills to psych ward invoices, this post lays it all out, including how I built my own AI therapist to survive the chaos. You don’t have to be rich to protect your mind—you just need to stop pretending mental health is optional.

Feeling worn out by the grind of parenting? You’re not alone. This isn’t just another to-do list pretending to be self-care. It’s a real, unfiltered look at how one tired mom weaves joy into messy mornings, chaotic afternoons, and bedtime mayhem—without needing more time, energy, or fake positivity. If you’re craving tiny moments that actually feel good, this is for you.

Trying to be present for your kids while meeting your own needs can feel like you’re constantly letting someone down—including yourself. But what if being a good mom didn’t require martyrdom? Explore how to redefine “presence,” ditch the guilt, and create space for your own needs without sacrificing the care you give your children. Because you matter too.