The Mom I Thought I’d Be vs. The Mom I Am

If you’ve ever caught yourself scrolling through parenting advice, wondering how everyone else seems to have it together while you’re just trying to keep everyone alive and semi-fed, this one’s for you. You might be exhausted, second-guessing yourself, and quietly mourning the mom you thought you’d be before reality (and a toddler) showed up. This isn’t another highlight reel; it’s a confession and a comfort. Because once you stop chasing the fantasy version of motherhood and start embracing the one you actually live in, things get a whole lot lighter, calmer, and more human.