Too Hot, Too Crowded: Why I Stopped Forcing Holiday Fun On My Kid

If holidays leave you feeling more drained than joyful, you’re not alone. The pressure to create picture-perfect memories—complete with fireworks, matching outfits, and smiling kids—often backfires. Instead of connection, you’re left with cranky toddlers, traffic jams, and sky-high expectations. This year, it might be time to ditch the crowds and choose something simpler. Here’s why skipping the chaos might be the best gift you give your family—and yourself.